I took time to go through Google and some relevant pages, I discovered questions like “how to slide into a girl’s dm,”; “how to dm on twitter,”; “how to dm on instagram,”; “ how to work the dm ,”
Now most of these are related and I’m going to answer all of your questions in this post.
WHAT IS THE MEANING OF “DM”
DM or Direct Messaging is a popular service offered on most social networks. It is the form of texting we see on social media, it doesn’t cost your mobile line and all it requires when you are registered is internet connection.
Now I’m going to get down to the interesting part: How to Work the DM
WORKING THE DM
Working the DM is synonymous to chatting except you don’t know who you are chatting or interacting with. “Work” is the careful steps you take to approach the person.
Work the DM is commonly used by teenagers today on networks like Twitter and Instagram where you can easily interact with people you don’t know.
7 RULES THAT GUIDE WORKING THE DM
- YOU MUST HAVE DONE YOUR BACKGROUND WORK
For you to successfully work the dm, you must have a base idea of the person you are about to talk or interact with. You must have know her likes, dislikes, favourite sports, etc. This will help you in interacting better with her.
- AVOID LETTING HER KNOW OF EMBARRASSING MOMENTS
When you do start interacting with her or going to her profiles, do well to steer clear of anything that would bring back her bad memories. Things like talking of a time she fell in school or liking a picture where she wasn’t looking good or …you get the idea.
- DON’T ASK FOR NUDES!!!
This rule is critical, I think it’s meant to be a law. Don’t ever ask a girl a girl for nudes. You want to see her naked doesn’t mean she wants to see you. And it’s not encouraging. You make yourself seem thirsty for her attention and she can manipulate it to her advantage.
- KEEP A LEVEL PLAYING FIELD
It’s simple. You must make sure things are balanced including converstions and exchange of pictures. Don’t be the one always saying “hi” and “hello”, don’t be the one whose text doesn’t get replied. If you’re experiencing this it means SHE IS NOT INTERESTED IN YOU.
So find a new DM to slide into.
- PROOFREAD YOUR TEXTS
I nearly missed this point. *gosh* what was I thinking?
Before anything else, you must proofread every text before sending them. Trust me it’s better than making a mistake and correcting yourself. Try to be flawless when you decide to work the dm.
Hit send only when you are 3000% percent sure.
- YOU MUST NOT DUO TEXT
What do I mean by duo text.
IF and when you decide to start working the dm, avoid duo (double) texting by all means. If you text her on Instagram and she doesn’t reply, don’t ever try to send another either on Instagram or on another social network.
Simply find another girl that will accept your DMs.
Johnny Bravo was dissed everytime but he didn’t cry or complain. Why should you?
- BE CONFIDENT
I don’t have much to write under this subtopic. If you are not confident of yourself, who should she regard you? Bro, before deciding to work her dm, be confident. Believe in yourself, and don’t get upset if you’re rejected.